Moving on up

We are moving! We finally found an apartment that we like, with a manageable commute to my new office, with a price that doesn’t make us ill at the idea of paying it every month. We’re moving out of the center of Kyiv, though, which is going to be an interesting change for us. And not just out of the center, but to the edge of Kyiv – two bus stops past the last metro station. But wow, is it ever quiet out there. And there’s a giant park nearby, a forest really. We are really looking forward to some long walks there.

We are also literally “moving up” – to the 10th floor! Even though we’ll be far from the center, we’ll have an amazing view, and we’ll see the weekly Kyiv fireworks from our balcony, instead of just hearing them but seeing nothing through the high-rises that surround us now.

And yes, there’s an elevator. 🙂

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The temperature has finally dropped enough that the centralized heat was turned on a few days ago. We’d been waiting for that before we gave the cat her quarterly shave. I decided to give it a try this time, and the cat actually laid down in the tub when I got out the electric shaver! Guess she was ready to lose all that insulation. Igor somehow just couldn’t stand by and let me manage the process, and I finally handed over the shaver. He’s getting better at it, but Pepette’s patience is not endless, and she especially hates it when he shaves her legs and head. She looks utterly ridiculous, but she’s happy! She got some extra special yummy treats for being such a good girl, had a good sprint around the apartment to demonstrate her new-found energy, and is now curled up on my lap purring like mad. Ah, how I love my monster.

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My new job is starting up slowly but surely. There’s a lot of stuff I have to do before I can really start doing my actual job – set up my office, buy a laptop and other equipment, hire my assistant, etc. The computer I’m using until I get my laptop is a dinosaur, and frustrates me to tears with its slowness and lack of capacity. The IT guy did something today that made it a bit better, but man I can’t wait to get a new computer.

They weren’t kidding about the 50% travel! By the end of this year, I should travel at least to DC, Budapest, Moscow, and one or two cities in Ukraine. But I can’t schedule any of it yet because the Ministry of Foreign Affairs is taking forever to do my new visa (because my visa is based on my employment, I had to get a new one when I changed jobs). They’ve had my passport for going on six weeks now, and it is also frustrating me. On the other hand, I have this sneaky feeling that I should enjoy the inability to travel while I can, ’cause soon enough I’ll be traveling a LOT.

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Saturday was my three year anniversary in Ukraine. It’s incredible to think how much has happened in these three years. I came here expecting to stay a year, maybe two, and I just updated my profile with the State Department’s Travel Registration to “staying indefinitely”. Three years in this apartment is also almost a record for me – the second longest residency in one abode since I moved out of my parents’ 18 years ago.

Life is good. I’m so glad, and very grateful, that I’ve found my place in the world, here with Igor. And the monster (aka Pepette).

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I downloaded 5 seasons of Homicide: Life on the Street. I loved the show when it was on air, but discovered it only after a couple of seasons. I really enjoyed watching from the beginning now and getting all the ‘backstories’ that I had missed before. Man, what a great show.

I’m also still working on my embroidery. I finished three small projects so far, one of which I want to frame and give to Igor’s mom for her birthday. My current project is by far the most ambitious to date – eleven different colors and a pretty complicated pattern. I’m ready to be done with it and try out the Ukrainian patterns I bought during our recent trip to the Carpathians. I’m about half way through it, argh. One cool side effect is that I am catching up on my podcasts, and the Podiobooks and Librivox books that I’ve been wanting to listen to. But now I’m way behind on my stack of paper books. *sigh*

Calling for Obama

Democrats Abroad Ukraine are calling voters in the US to encourage people to vote, and to answer questions about the Obama/Biden campaign. Being from a swing state, I’ve got a long list of Ohio folks to call. It’s exciting to talk to so many people who have (1) already voted, and (2) have or are going to vote for Obama/Biden!

Check out the Obama/Biden campaign, you can volunteer to knock on doors and/or make calls. You can do it wherever you are in the world – we’re calling the US tonight using Skype; it only costs 2 cents/minute!

UPDATE: I called 57 Ohio voters for under $3.00 – including a 45 minute call with “on the fence” voter. You can do it too! Help get out the vote.

Beautiful autumn

We wanted to take advantage of a few days off between jobs, and so drove to the Carpathian mountains for a long weekend last week. We took off later on Thursday than desirable (I got stuck in the office *argh*), and made it to Ternopil, about 350 kilometers from Kyiv. It was nice to have Michael with us, especially since he could share the driving with me. But neither of us felt comfortable on the dark, twisty roads, so we stopped for the night, planning for an early start on Friday morning for the remaining 200ish kilometers to Kosiv.

We did start out early, but bad roads and several wrong turns meant we didn’t make it to Kosiv until well after lunchtime. We were tired, hungry, and most of all sick of being in the car. We grabbed lunch at a koliba, a kind of rustic restaurant typical in the Carpathians. Michael had his first taste of the popular food of the region – banosh (a cornmeal dish kind of like polenta), brinza (sheep’s cheese), and the famous Carpathian mountain white mushrooms. Yum!

We then met up with Igor’s grad school friend Sveta for a hike up a hill on the edge of Kosiv. The weather was perfect, not too hot, not too cold; the hike was steep, and we were all huffing and puffing. But man did it feel good to be out in the fresh air, surrounded by quiet, and the wonderful aroma of autumn. We saw some ladies with baskets searching for those marvelous white mushrooms. We saw houses dotting the landscape in meadows and little valleys. We saw a man leading a horse up a steep mud trail, the horse struggling to pull up a huge felled tree. At the top of the path, we saw two other giant logs the horse had already lugged up; poor thing, it didn’t look easy.

At the top of the hill, panting but exhilarated, we took in the gorgeous view all around – brilliant waves of color on the surrounding mountains. This was what we had been hoping for, the beautiful autumn leaves. Michael set up his photo equipment and set to work, and Igor, Sveta and I meandered slowly back down the hill.

Dinner that night was at the fabulous trout restaurant where we ate during our visit last summer. The owners had lived in Italy for a few years and learned the art of trout farming. Their home/restaurant is tucked away, at the end of a dirt road, back between lots of other houses and completely invisible from the main road and seemingly un-distinguishable from the neighbors, until you pass through the gate and find the lovely trout pond surrounded by little gazebos and cabins. Sveta had called in advance for us, so our meals had already been plucked from the pond and well on their way in the dinner preparation process. Usually the owner lets you select your own trout from the pond. The dinner was, of course, phenomenal. We ordered a bottle of wine, only to realize a few minutes later that the owner was going to drive to the store to buy one for us, thinking we didn’t want the house wine. We didn’t know there was a house wine, and were pleasantly surprised that it wasn’t sickeningly sweet (as much Ukrainian wine is). We happily saved him a trip and enjoyed the housewine. There are no menus at this restaurant, as their daily special consists of a set meal – a big plate of cabbage salad (kind of like coleslaw), homemade white bread, and one fish per person, swimming in sour cream, with a side of banosh (the polenta-like cornmeal dish). My mouth is watering just thinking about it.

We settled down for the night in Sveta’s partially-renovated house high up on a hillside. Last year, there were just bare walls and work had just started. This year, the first and second floors are nearly complete, sans furniture, and the basement with sauna, showers, and rec room is under way. Igor and I slept upstairs, under the slanted roof with big skylights. I woke up in the middle of the night and stood in awe under the window – the bright moon illuminating the crystal clear night sky, surrounded by a billion pinpoints of light. I simply cannot describe the awesome beauty.

Saturday morning, Sveta, Michael and I were up early to hit the market. I have heard about the Kosiv market for several years now and have been burning to explore it myself. I was well-prepared, with a frightening amount of money in my purse and a strong will to make a nice contribution to the local economy.

Kosiv is the home to a famous Ukrainian artisan institute, where young people study the traditional arts and crafts, becoming modern masters of embroidery, weaving, woodworking, pysanky, and other beautiful handicrafts. I had high hopes to buy a carpet, but didn’t find one that I absolutely loved. I did find a beautiful traditional Ukrainian embroidered blouse, which I am proud to finally have in my wardrobe. I bought some patterns, as well, to try my hand at later, as well as a small painting. I could have happily spent the entire day wandering the market, admiring the thick wool blankets, the delicate woodworkings, and all the other lovely things, but alas, the rest of the group had to be appeased, as well. They seemed to have the crazy notion that shopping was not the single purpose of our trip.

After a quick lunch, Michael took the wheel and had the pleasure of being a passenger for a leisurely drive through the twisty mountain roads. The views were breathtaking every where, the mountains covered in brilliant carpets of bright colors – yellow, gold, red, orange, and still some greens. We stopped a couple times for Michael to take some photos.

There was severe flooding throughout the Carpathians this past summer, and we saw the massive construction efforts under way everywhere as part of the recovery. Sveta told us that 150 bridges had been destroyed in one day. There were still several treacherous spots along the narrow roads, but mostly we were quite impressed with progress made in just a couple of months. Temporary bridges were up everywhere, and new, sounder bridges were well along in the construction process.

We arrived at the highest peak in the Ukrainian Carpathians, Horvela. We had hiked nearly to the top last year, and Igor was anxious to show Michael the wonderful view. I opted to wait below while the three of them hiked up, again nearly to the apex but not venturing the last 150 steep, rocky meters. One of these days we’ll do it.

We marveled at the sunset as we drove back to Kosiv, and stopped after dark at a great little koliba for dinner – again, banosh, white mushrooms, and this time shashliki for the carnivores. Once back at Sveta’s, we were exhausted yet absolutely satisfied. Sad only that we didn’t have another couple of days to relax in the mountains.

Sunday morning was another early start. We planned a different route home, passing through Khotyn and Kamianets-Podolsky with plans to stop and see the fortresses. While still within the mountains, though, two churches caught our attention and we stopped. On one side of the street, a tall, bare, stone abandoned church, Catholic maybe; on the other side of the street, a lively, colorful wooden church with tin roof, ornamented and detailed, receiving the villagers for Sunday mass. We walked around the abandoned church first, peaking through the crack in the wooden front door. Igor picked at the stone and brick facade and declared it 17th century. The inside was stripped bare, cold and dark with thin streams of light cascading down through cracks and holes.

The other church couldn’t have been more opposite – within a low fence, the surrounding grass was still bright green, the bushes and flowers full and colorful. The pathway clean and well-maintained. We noticed the woman, all in skirts with covered heads, entering through the front door, while most of the men walked around to the right side to an entrance we couldn’t see. Igor later commented that he has heard of some mountain congregations that have separate areas for men and women, but we were confused that a few of the men entered the same door we went in through, where all the women entered. We also saw another side door which 3 women were standing just outside of, their heads leaning in through the open doorway. “Do you know why they are standing there?” Igor asked me. I hazarded a guess, “That time of the month?” Yep. Menstruating women aren’t supposed to enter the church, and apparently these ladies still wanted to participate as much as was allowable. I’ll never understand believing in a church (or any other organization or person) that thinks you are lessor, for any reason, but especially for a completely natural and normal process. It just boggles my mind.

I covered my head with my scarf, feeling self-conscious in my grungy jeans and tennis shoes. We would have clearly stood out as strangers even if dressed appropriately, in such a small village where everyone knows each other. We were greeted with curious stares and, much to my relief, warm smiles. I couldn’t help notice the din of whispers as the congregation became aware of our presence in the back of the church. One woman smiled and motioned forward with her hand, encouraging us to move in further.

The very back of the church, where we had entered, had a low ceiling, which blocked the view into the small but tall main chamber of the church. At first glance, it looked like most any other Orthodox church, with the iconstasis, icons, candles, etc. My first shock though was to see benches – not just a couple along the side walls for the extreme elderly or disabled, but ROWS of benches, from the back to the front of the church. I have never seen benches, or any other instrument for sitting, in an Orthodox church in Ukraine or Russia. They just don’t do that.

The second shock, more amusing, came into view as I walked along the center aisle and more of the main hall came into view. There was a bright neon icon, with flashing lights all around it. It was one of the gaudiest things I’ve ever seen! And seemed so absurd in the church. I had a good chuckle just looking at it.

We continued our trip, which went much slower than we had expected (what else is new? We should know by now that ever road trip in Ukraine takes twice as long as we anticipate). We made it to Khotyn by about noon, and decided to stop for about 30 minutes to see the famous fortress. The setting is really beautiful, as you walk from the parking lot, crest the hill, and look out across the fortress with the Dneister river flowing by. There was a lot of work being done on the fortress, and Igor commented that we should come back in 3 years. We still managed to explore the area for over an hour, and really enjoyed the site. But we sacrificed the stop at Kamianets-Podolsky, even though Igor said it’s in better condition. We were hours behind in our travel schedule, and not looking forward to the long long drive still ahead.

We made it to about 30 kilometers outside Kyiv before the hellish traffic jams started, about 7:00 pm. Three hours later, we finally dragged ourselves up the stairs to our apartment, exhausted. It was a hard trip, definitely too short, but I’m so glad we did it. An autumn visit to the mountains will most certainly become an annual trip for us.

Time and change

The time has again come for change. After four years as an international volunteer, I am returning to my career. I’ve loved my experiences, and am so happy I took the chances, and the risks, that I did – so many wonderful opportunities have come my way, so many fantastic changes. I can’t imagine my life without Igor, and that alone makes the sacrifices, the stress, and all the uncertainties worth it.

Professionally, I’ve grown and gained immensely valuable experience, too. I wanted to volunteer internationally in order to change my career, and I have, and I have not.

I will be working as the Regional Educational Advising Coordinator (aka REAC) for Eurasia, working out of American Councils for International Education. Many of you know that I worked at Ohio State University for nearly 10 years, and education is my first field. Moreover, international education is my passion. I couldn’t be more excited to be returning to my first love, and to be doing it on this side of the pond. As so often seems to be the case, in hindsight it all seems to have been leading me here.

We are delighted, no, downright thrilled, to be staying in Kyiv. I’ll be traveling a lot again, and now more internationally than within Ukraine, which is exciting. I hope Igor can join me on some of the trips, that would be so much fun.

It will be interesting to work in such an America-focused environment. After 3 years with the UN, where I was the only American, it’s going to take me awhile to get used to the idea that people not only understand my obsession with Ohio State football, they also know what the heck is college football (and no, I don’t mean soccer!). I will miss the really international environment of the UN, but am also really excited to be back wtih an American organization.

A great Igor’s birthday

Igor’s birthday celebrations lasted nearly as long as our wedding celebrations. After our own celebrations on Thursday, we went to Korosten for the weekend, and 2 more days of fun.

Friday night with spent with friends at Anatoliy’s farm outside Korosten. I drove up after work, while Igor had come earlier in the day by bus. It was clear I was a more than a bit behind in the celebrations, but since I was driving, my fun was limited to the fabulous food. It’s not so fun to be sober amongst a bunch of drunk people, but I still managed to have a good time until about 11, when I’d had enough. We finally made it home close to 1 a.m.

Saturday we took Igor’s family to the awesome pizzeria. The owner lived for awhile in Italy and learned the art of pizza-making there, and has even built a special clay pizza oven. Actual Italians have told me it’s awesome pizza, and considering it’s the only decent restaurant in Korosten, it’s always our place of choice for any time we eat out. Good food and good times were had by all.

We noticed an odd and disturbing theme in Igor’s presents this year – a sake set, a flask with matching shot glasses, and a set of 6 malachite shot glasses. By the time he opened the third alcohol-oriented present, Igor was starting to worry that he might be an alcoholic (or at least his friends seem to think he’s a drunk). We now have enough booze sets to open a bar, I think. Is this a bad thing? Maybe not! But I’m glad I didn’t buy him the martini shaker and glasses. Those can wait until next year.

Our buddy Michael came up to Korosten Saturday afternoon, and we drove to the nearby forest so Michael could fulfill a long-time fantasy of mushroom gathering. I thankfully waited in the car while Igor, his parents and Michael tromped through the forest hunting the little fungi for a couple hours. My punishment came when we got home, when several bags of mushrooms were deposited before me for cleaning. Michael, anxious for the “full experience”, happily pitched in, and Igor, probably out of guilt, sat down to work too. In an hour or so, we had a big bucket of gorgeous mushrooms ready for cooking! And yuuuuummm, were they ever tasty. We had enough that we brought a bag back to Kyiv with us, and Igor added them to a fabulous pot of borscht that he whipped up. Yummy.

Sunday we hit the Korosten market, looking for a few bargains. Michael, photographer that he is, staked out the bus stop and photographed and talked up folks for a couple of hours. We finally headed back to Kyiv, Michael trying his hand at driving in Ukraine. He did well, but wasn’t ready for Kyiv traffic. But we made it home safe and sound.

All in all, a great, long and fun celebration of Igor’s birthday. Next weekend we head off to the Carpathian mountains. I hope the leaves haven’t all fallen yet!

The good, the bad, and the ugly

Well, how about the wonderful, the delicious, and the bad idea?

My husband is wonderful. I couldn’t be happier. He said tonight (yes, it was the fifth or sixth cup of sake at the sushi restaurant, but still it made me blush) that he realized during this year that all he needs is me and the cat. I was surprised the cat was included in his top two, but was happy to be placed above her! I suspected they had something sneaky going on during the day when I’m at the office….

The dinner was delicious. We both love Sushi Ya. It’s not upscale, not pretentious, and probably not even real fish, but we like it. And we can stumble home after 400 grams of sake.

Bad idea: doing your own manicure after a couple bottles of sake. Note to self: find the nail polish remover before going to work in the morning.

All in all, a good Igor’s birthday.

Happy Birthday Igor!

We started the multi-day celebrations of my darling husband’s birthday today. We were awoken at 7:15 by some friends calling to wish him a Happy Birthday – we are both accustomed to the fact that there is no sleeping in on your birthday! That was just the first of a slew of calls he will get all day long from friends, relatives, and colleagues.

We’ll be in Korosten for the weekend, celebrating Friday night with friends, Saturday with family. Sunday Igor is taking Michael to the forest for mushroom hunting. I, happily, can finally be excused from this activity. I just don’t get any thrill out of it, but Igor, his parents, and millions of Ukrainians anxiously await mushroom season and gleefully spend hours skulking through the forests in search of mushrooms. Me? I think it’s hot, uncomfortable, boring, and an endless battle against mosquitoes. Of course I’m more than happy to help with the eating of the delicious mushrooms! That’s more my kind of sport.

I didn’t manage to get his birthday present here in time to give him today (a digital camera ordered from the US), so today he got a new camera bag with a lovely picture of his soon-to-be camera. 🙂 When I left for work this morning, he was already scouring websites to learn all about his new toy. It should be here in a couple of weeks, when a friend comes back to Kyiv. Nothing like a bit of anticipation!

So, my darling – З днем народження!